One thing to remember, this is normal in big boy recruiting. OSU just lost a top DB. look at how many ND is trying to poach from other schools, with K-State and Pitt commits getting offers last week. This is just the reality. The goal is to minimize it and to keep the ones you need to, and win more than you lose.
The thing said with Bowen, whether accurate or not, is that his brother is a top recruit in 2024 so the family is taking visits for him as well.